Monday, April 13, 2015

The Parables of Jesus Series – Parable of the Forgiving Father a.k.a. Parable of Prodigal Son

Luke 15:11-32 To illustrate the point further, Jesus told them this story: “A man had two sons. The younger son told his father, ‘I want my share of your estate now before you die.’ So his father agreed to divide his wealth between his sons.

“A few days later this younger son packed all his belongings and moved to a distant land, and there he wasted all his money in wild living. About the time his money ran out, a great famine swept over the land, and he began to starve. He persuaded a local farmer to hire him, and the man sent him into his fields to feed the pigs. The young man became so hungry that even the pods he was feeding the pigs looked good to him. But no one gave him anything.

“When he finally came to his senses, he said to himself, ‘At home even the hired servants have food enough to spare, and here I am dying of hunger! I will go home to my father and say, “Father, I have sinned against both heaven and you, and I am no longer worthy of being called your son. Please take me on as a hired servant.”’

“So he returned home to his father. And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him. His son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against both heaven and you, and I am no longer worthy of being called your son.’

“But his father said to the servants, ‘Quick! Bring the finest robe in the house and put it on him. Get a ring for his finger and sandals for his feet. And kill the calf we have been fattening. We must celebrate with a feast, for this son of mine was dead and has now returned to life. He was lost, but now he is found.’ So the party began.

“Meanwhile, the older son was in the fields working. When he returned home, he heard music and dancing in the house, and he asked one of the servants what was going on. ‘Your brother is back,’ he was told, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf. We are celebrating because of his safe return.’

“The older brother was angry and wouldn't go in. His father came out and begged him, but he replied, ‘All these years I've slaved for you and never once refused to do a single thing you told me to. And in all that time you never gave me even one young goat for a feast with my friends. Yet when this son of yours comes back after squandering your money on prostitutes, you celebrate by killing the fattened calf!’

“His father said to him, ‘Look, dear son, you have always stayed by me, and everything I have is yours. We had to celebrate this happy day. For your brother was dead and has come back to life! He was lost, but now he is found!’”

While most often we hear the emphasis of this parable on the son, it really should be on the father.  In this parable the Father represents God, the prodigal represents the lost/sinners; the elder brother represents self-righteous people (hypocrites) who are hard on sinners, making it difficult for them to receive forgiveness.

We can learn a few lessons from this parable.

1. Sin and selfishness alienates a person from God, causing them to live in a way that is displeasing to him. 

The son showed his selfishness by asking his father for his half of the family estate.  This inheritance should have been given to him after his father’s death, but the selfish son, in asking for it early, was telling his father that he cared more about things than their relationship.  

The Greek term for the inheritance is suggestive, "the life" (ton bion). He wants his portion of what his father's life will leave him. (The IVP New Testament Commentary Series)

The son desired to leave the protective oversight of his father and escape responsibility to his father; so he left his father’s house and set off for a distant country where he could be totally independent of his father.  (Pentecost, J. D. (1998). The parables of Jesus: lessons in life from the Master Teacher (p. 98). Grand Rapids, MI: Kregel Publications.)

When we sin, we are telling God that we know better than he does and that our desires are more important than our relationship with him.  We all want the blessings of being a Christian; however, often believers don’t want the responsibility that comes with it. 

2. When we yield to sin, sin takes us down a path we never intended to travel.

The son went to a far country and the Word tells us he squandered his money on wild living.  He had much money and with the money came “friends.”  When the money was gone, however, so were the friends.   Everything that had once brought happiness and freedom were gone.

Facing poverty was bad enough, then natural disaster hits in the form of famine.  Everyone is now suffering from the famine.  The son becomes so desperate for food that he hires himself out as a swineherd.  This was the most degrading, humiliating, embarrassing job a Jewish young man could have.  In Jewish culture swine were detestable and unclean.  To even touch one made the person ceremonially unclean.   He not only has to touch them, he is their caregiver.  This young man had sunk very low indeed. 

While he is employed, his stomach tells him he does not have enough.  He becomes so hungry that the pods he feeds the pigs look inviting.  He begins to feel the full effect of his sin for the first time.  As he reflects back over his life, he realizes that his father’s servants are living in better conditions than he is.  He also realizes that he has made a grievous error.  He has turned his back on the very one who has provided extravagantly for him all his life.  He has dishonored the one who loves him most.   
Sin leads us to spiritual poverty.  When we willfully sin, we spend less time in prayer, reading our Bible, and in fellowship with other believers.  The less time we spend with God and other believers the farther into sin we wander.  As we walk in our flesh and gratify its desires we turn our back on the one who can and will provide extravagantly for us.  We dishonor the one who loves us most. 

The son is now feeling the effects of the famine. “However, his father is not impoverished, and those who remain in the father's household are not affected. Although God has all riches, those among his elect who have yet to repent suffer spiritual poverty just as if they are not part of the father's household.” (Cheung, Vincent (2014-11-25). The Parables of Jesus (Kindle Locations 457-459). Lulu.com. Kindle Edition.)

The Word tells us that he finally “came to his senses.” Romans 3:11-14 warns us to do the same.  The time has come to put off the junk that holds us back and kick the enemy out of our lives once and for all.  The hour is late and it is no time to be playing around with sin!

Romans 13:11-14 (NIV) “And do this, understanding the present time: The hour has already come for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed. The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.”

3. The Father longs for his children to come home!! 

“And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him.”  The father would not have seen him coming if he had not been looking for him to return.  This is a beautiful picture of our Heavenly Father!  He longs for sinners to come to him.  2 Peter 3:9 “The Lord isn't really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent.”

God's forgiveness is active. Just as he has already chosen those whom he would save, he also actively reaches out to the sinner and causes him to repent. God does not passively wait for you to repent -- if he does, you would never repent precisely because you are a sinner, and your will is fixed against him. God changes the will of those whom he has chosen to receive salvation, and causes them to repent. (Cheung, Vincent (2014-11-25). The Parables of Jesus (Kindle Locations 528-532). Lulu.com. Kindle Edition.)\

“But his father said to the servants, ‘Quick! Bring the finest robe in the house and put it on him. Get a ring for his finger and sandals for his feet. And kill the calf we have been fattening. We must celebrate with a feast, for this son of mine was dead and has now returned to life. He was lost, but now he is found.’ So the party began.”        

When we “come home” through repentance we become heirs once more.  The Father doesn't withhold any good thing from us.  Psalm 84:11 “For the Lord God is our sun and our shield. He gives us grace and glory. The Lord will withhold no good thing from those who do what is right.”

The note of joy about the son's return is crucial in the passage, as is the father's restoration of (The IVP New Testament Commentary Series)
sonship privileges. The son has come from destitution to complete restoration. That is what God's grace does for a penitent sinner.

4. We, like the Father, should rejoice when a sinner comes to Christ. 

The older son says, "But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!" (v. 30). A repentant sinner begins to perceive the truth concerning God, sin, and himself. In contrast, a self-righteous person fails to comprehend the true nature of sin and grace. One who depends on his own works despises God's forgiveness as something that excuses sin, rather than recognizing it as a demonstration of his kindness and mercy.

The elder brother fails to understand that it is not sin that we celebrate, but repentance. The father celebrates not because his son was lost, that he was as one dead, but he rejoices because his son has changed , that he has returned and repented of his previous way of life. Likewise, God's forgiveness does not imply that he tolerates sin; rather, he rejoices in a person's repentance, that the person has come to his senses, and that he has come to place himself at the mercy of God, knowing that he has no merit of his own. (Cheung, Vincent (2014-11-25). The Parables of Jesus (Kindle Locations 587-591). Lulu.com. Kindle Edition.)

Luke 15:7 “In the same way, there is more joy in heaven over one lost sinner who repents and returns to God than over ninety-nine others who are righteous and haven’t strayed away!” 

Luke 15: 10 “In the same way, there is joy in the presence of God’s angels when even one sinner repents.”

The story is left hanging. The elder brother is left to contemplate the father's words. We do not know if he comes in to celebrate or not. In literary terms, this is an open ending. What will he do? Jesus' listeners are to contemplate their own response as well. The parable is truly a story of reversal. It is hope of such a reversal that causes Jesus to seek the sinner. The potential of God's grace drives him to love others and actively pursue them. (The IVP New Testament Commentary Series)


Praise God! He sought me and keeps seeking my heart daily!  1 John 3:1a “See how very much our Father loves us, for he calls us his children, and that is what we are!”

All Scripture is NLT unless otherwise stated. 

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